The first time you give somebody something for free you create appreciation.

The second time you give the same person something for free you create anticipation.

The third time- expectation.

The fourth time- entitlement

The fifth time- dependency.

When you don't give it again , it can often lead to resentment that overnight grows into hatred.
Be charitable but be wise.

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